Author: ashokkarania

  • Suicide Is Not The Answer

    Suicide Is Not The Answer

    Shocked and saddened by the suicide of V G Siddhartha – cannot believe it!

    Siddhartha founded the Cafe Coffee Day chain and changed the way India drank coffee. He created thousands of jobs, a great brand and shared wealth. He also backed Mindtree and underwrote Infosys shares. He made other IT investments and gave support to the founders.

    Why did he do this? We will never know the reasons. He came from a strong family, had great political and business connections. He was a successful entrepreneur. There are talks about the pressure of PE investor, Income Tax harassment and Debt woes. But an entrepreneur knows all such challenges – at what point did it really get too much? Or was there something else?

    It is impossible for us to judge what he must be going through. No one can imagine his situation. 

    My point is simple….Suicide is not the answer. Life is a gift. Setbacks give way to sunshine. Today’s problems will go away.  

    Suicide means end of a great talent and human potential. It means failure of the human spirit. It leaves behind emotional scars for family and friends for life – a guilt that they could not do enough. 

    And yes, no individual nor any organisation is worth giving up our live for. 

    When one feels low, please talk to friends. Listen to music – a cure for everything. Spend time with nature. Or help others – world is full of more unfortunate people and helpless situations than us – help others. Instead of giving up life, help others live a good life and one could find our own meaning of life. 

    Reach out fo self-care group, suicide prevention helplines like Sneha, Parivartan etc.. Organizations like Moodcafe, White Swan Foundation, Live Love Laugh Foundation, MPower Minds can help as well. 

    Choose life. Suicide is not the answer. This too shall pass. 

    Image Courtesy: Faris Mohammed

  • Prakashotsav – An Intoxicating Evening!

    Prakashotsav – An Intoxicating Evening!

    Intoxication found at Gujarat Vidyapith premises! Intoxication of love, respect and admiration for Prakash N Shah (પ્રકાશન. શાહ  ka નશા)

    The occasion was the public felicitation of Shri Prakash N Shah – the many with many roles! The auditorium was overflowing with double its capacity and people occupying the aisles, areas between dais-chair, service area – whatever space one could find. The Saturday evening distractions or the 40 degree heat did not stop the admirers to throng at Gujarat Vidyapith. The audience grabbed every word like a gem and the 2.5 hour event ended too soon – never mind the endless sweating! 

    Prakashotsav – The festival celebrating Prakash N Shah was organised by his friends, well-wishers and Sarthak Prakashan team. 

    The evening started with a mock court where the most loved culprit Prakash N Shah was produced in the court of judge Hashmukh Patel. The lawyers Ketan Rupera and Urvish Kothari conducted the proceedings with the help of Ashish Kakkad. The public prosecutor Urvish Kothari produced a stellar list of witnesses to prove the charges against Prakash N Shah. Ratilal Borisagar, Ashwin Chauhan, Ashish Mehta, Binit Modi, Biren Kothari, Nayanbahen Shah and other stellar figures accused Prakash Shah of several crimes – the burning ambition of being a prime minister, torturing the world with his cryptic and incomprehensible language, creating a cult of his own, communist leanings, hidden acting skills etc. The court proceedings were ably proved with strong logic, evidences and confessions of the witnesses. 

    The mock court was followed by the release of Urvish Kothari’s book on Conversations with Prakash Shah. Prakash N Shah was felicitated by a section of citizens of Ahmedabad. 

    The grand finale was the speech of Prakash N Shah. He expressed his gratitude for the great gesture. 

    He recounted his journey. His central thought was – Yukta and Mukta. He spoke about Gandhi. He spoke about the impact of three primary books on his life. The audience was listening as hypnotised by David Copperfield but time came calling….

    Prakash N Shah’s intoxication and values will remain…An evening to remember for a human to never forget …..

    Prakashbhai & Ash:

    The white clothes, the simple spectacle and the straight from the heart laughter is how I visualise him whenever we say Prakashbhai. His simplicity, his vision, his clarity and his friendliness is his magic that drives us to him again and again. 

    Thanks to Vipool Kalyani and Gujaratilexicon, I have the greatest fortune of spending lot of time with him and knowing him. The Nireekshak Digitization and other initiatives got us working together. Gujaratilexicon briefly operated from his residence during a difficult time in our journey. 

    Prakash N Shah is a towering personality but he is our Prakashbhai. Our DadaGuru….Sri Sri Sri Dada Guru…Not many can see the Halo behind him…So you see he does have a cult! He is also the business partner of my spouse – they are still searching for their Eureka moment!

  • Thoughts On Death

    Thoughts On Death

    Death is a technical problem. Yuval Noah Harris says that death happens because our body parts fail. The next frontier in science is to conquer death. We are adding years to our life with each passing decade. Can we become immortal? 

    Death is the ultimate truth of life. People are either afraid of death or try to run away from it. Acknowledge it. Accept it. And live today’s life with full celebration!

    Death is the reality of life. And when we die, the bank balance, designation, KRAs, Instagram supremacy and everything else will cease to matter. Within a few days, live will move on. Within a few years, the name will be gone. Within a few generations, our memory will be gone. So why stress so much? Let us live a life of principles. Let us live a life to be an example to our network. Let us live a life to help others.

    After a good day of hard work and meaningful activities with family, one gets a great sleep. Similarly, a life of good deed and actions results in a peaceful long time sleep.

    What would I wish when I die? One of my life’s biggest principle is ‘Live 2 Give’. I guess it should continue after the death. Hence it would be nice to be useful to others even when I am gone. Organ donation or donating the complete body for medical reasons is a great option. The soul has departed, so if the body organs can help someone else, it should be exercised. In India, there are emotional and spiritual reasons that are discussed, but I believe it is the lack of awareness on the benefits of organ donation that is the key issue. I would love to give possessions like books to the people who benefit from it. 

    Death should not be a serious event. There should be no or minimal formalities – let the world carry on without being affected. The loved ones and friends should celebrate the departure at a cinema call and watch a favourite movie – Anand, Guide, Kabhi Haa Kabhi Naa! If food questions comes in, the South Indian food is the way to go! And pan as well!

    Image Courtesy: Hanan Hashi

  • Life Lessons from India – New Zealand Thriller!

    Life Lessons from India – New Zealand Thriller!

    The World Cup 2019 Semi-final has silenced a nation of 1.35 billion people.

    The India – New Zealand clash has prompted strong emotions across the globe. The fans’ reaction is a testimony to their love of the game and ‘Men in Blue’. One can discard their involvement and ideas as arm-chair suggestions but without fans, the game is incomplete. The game is a bigger game because of fan, and it unites everyone – delivery boy, CEO, office staff, families!

    What else did I see in the India – New Zealand clash? What can be learn from it for our life?

    1. Innovation

    Indian team showed no innovation. India stuck to their old ways. Same batting order except pushing Dhoni down. Dhoni should have risen up in the order and he would have anchored the batting. He would have stopped Rishabh and Hardik from rash shots.

    Our Batsman played the same way as they did in earlier matches.

    We all need to innovate in life. We cannot keep trying the same things every time. Our career requires us to develop new skills and bring new ideas to the table. Innovation is key to success in today’s world. We need to evolve!

    2. No Plan B

    Indian Team did not have a Plan B. What if our big guns did not deliver? What if our middle order was exposed? India’s middle order was our biggest problem and we never worked on it. The lack of Plan B costed us the match.

    We had a great opportunity in India vs SL match to give practice to others. But still Virat came at No.3 and so did others at their own positions.

    In life our best planned ideas can go wrong. We need to have a Plan B. If our dream promotion does not happen, what do we do? If we do not get admission in IIM, what do we do?

    3. Flexibility / Overconfidence

    The team came across as stubborn as well. The rains would have made the batting difficult was a given factor . But our earlier success blinded us to the new situation. Maybe we got overconfident. What has worked well would continue!

    Respect the conditions. Respect the opponents. Every artist touches the stage before it performs on the stage – we did not kiss and read the pitch well.

    It is not the strongest or the smartest that survives – it is the most adaptable that survives. We need to learn flexibility in life. Change as per the situation and circumstance. Do not be stubborn.

    4. Discipline

    New Zealand was a disciplined outfit. The batsmen, bowler and fielder played to the strength. The bowlers stuck to the line and the length. The batsmen may have been slow but scored a decent score in the circumstances. The fielding was exceptional including the run-out that broke Dhoni’s stellar run and Indian hearts.

    Indian batsmen were still in their flashy IPL mode. Rishabh Pant and Hardik Pandya could not control their natural instincts. Clearly Rahul was out of the place. We had our share of woes in fielding as well. Virat said that 45 minutes of bad cricket cost us the tournaments. That is what happens in life as well. One bad impulsive action or decision can cause greater regrets!

    Whether is studies or financial planning, discipline goes a long way. Avoid flamboyance. Just do the job silently and consistently. The devil is in the details. Persistent efforts win!

    5. Leadership

    New Zealand skipper deserves equal credit for the leadership he demonstrated. He was the captain cool. Not only did he read the pitch right, he played to the strengths. Kane Williamson outsmarted India tactically with the way he attacked upfront and the way he set the field. He was in action throughout out the match and encouraging the team. He changed the bowlers, backed the colleagues and calmed every one when Jadeja-Dhoni were on fire. His belief ensured that New Zealand was through the match.

    Many people talked about the luck and the rains. A champion team does not need luck. And luck favors the brave and the prepared teams. Had India showed more steel and flexibility, the outcome would have been different. Luck helped Dhoni and Jadeja. But it also helped Guptill – whose run out was the worst thing to happen to India. Or Virat’s dicey wicket. But there are no other excuses – we lost on our own account. We were almost there…but New Zealand got it better that day! We should have not lost to England – we could have got another opponent!

    But the most important thing is that India put a great emphatic show during the entire World Cup. All of us loved it and our team was the table toppers! We had a great semi-final as well where hopes were alive till the last over. It was Dhoni that gave us the belief that we could still have win probability of 70% at 5-3. And we got to see Jadeja’s striking response to Sanjay bits and pieces comment!

    Rohit Sharma’s magnificent batting and Bumrah’s magical bowling will remain in our hearts and minds for long time to come!

    Life is about wins and rising after each fall. Sports is the greatest teacher. This too shall pass!

    Let us back the BlackCaps for a win! Cricket needs a new champion!

  • Aashadh Ka Ek Din: A Great Play

    Aashadh Ka Ek Din: A Great Play

    आषाढ़ का एक दिन – अति उत्कृष्ट

    Aashadh Ka Ek Din: Mohan Rakesh’s Classic Three Act Play Was Presented Beautifully By Director Manish Sabu. 

    The Award Winning & Pioneering Modern Hindi Play Focuses On Poet Kalidasa’s Life & His Emotional Connect With Mallika. Mallika’s Influence & Inspiration Allows Him To Create Great Works But He Struggles As Politics & Power Rob His Creativity. He Returns To His Roots After Abandoning Politics But Surprise Is In Store For Him. Each Act Ends With Mallika Being Left Alone & Kalidasa Moving On. 

    The Pure Hindi Was A Great Delight In This World Of Hinglish. Preeti Bhat Shone As Mallika With Strong Support From Others. A Great Play To Watch – Showcases Strong Content, Amazing Acting, Nice Direction & High Production Values.

  • The Chernobyl Diary

    The Chernobyl Diary

    Chernobyl is back in news thanks to HBO series. Chernobyl is one of the most tragic events in our history. Chernobyl happened when I was in school. I was too young to understand it but we were all talking that something big and bad had happened.. I remember me and my friend Abhi reading the newspapers, watching TV and discussing this passionately. Since then a visit to Chernobyl was one of the things in my bucket list – yes I have an interesting bucket list.

    I landed in Kiev for a trip to Chernobyl. Though Ukrainian authorities had started tourist activities in the Chernobyl since many years, it was recently only that Visa regime became friendly. 

    I reached the Kiev Central station after a quick ride in the Soviet style metro. The Chernobyl Tours are conducted by licensed agencies and instructors. I had chosen one of the local agencies and our guide for the day was Igor. The tour was only allowed to people above 18 years. Basic health criteria must be met. Currently, citizens of Russia and Belarus cannot visit the tour. There were 3-4 check-points to ensure that the compliance was met. 

    We got lot of instructions about the safety and do and don’ts for the trip. We were not supposed to put our clothing down on the floor or ground anywhere. We had to regularly measure radiation levels using Geiger counter. We could not touch the animals. We could go only in areas allowed for visits etc. We were not supposed to take anything from the nuclear site and town. No special souvenirs! 

    The big question was about the safety of the tour. The Chernobyl Zone and Prypiat town have high radiation but they are safe for human beings. One-day tour’s radiation is equal to the radiation experienced in one hour airplane flight. Or the exposure is 160 times less than X-Ray of chest. And we had Geiger meter to be sure. So the trip was safe. Or it means flights are not as safe as we think!

    After the basic instructions and tips, Igor gave us the background about the Chernobyl accident including the technical details. The accident happened on 01:23 am on April 26, 1986. A power failure test was being conducted and an accident happened causing explosion during emergency shutdown. And one thing led to another causing uncontrolled reaction – water flashed into the site created a steam explosion. The fire produced plumes of fission products and the radioactive material moved towards USSR and Europe. The authorities either did not understand the gravity of the situation or they downplayed it. But they did not acknowledge the accident immediately – maybe a mistake in hindsight. In fact, the people in the nearby town carried on the life as normal. Nobody was told the truth. It was only after a week that people were evacuated from the nearby town of Pripyat which had a population of 49,000 people. The town was designed as a model town and was the town planned for the staff and families of people working at Chernobyl Nuclear Power Plant. It was Sweden which alerted the world about the presence of these plumes in the air. Then authorities had to acknowledge the accident. Belarus was the worst affected country as plumes moved towards that direction. 

    Back to the trip. The first stop was the checkpoint of Dytiaki. Our passports were checked. We moved to the abandoned villages. We could see the traditional houses, village shopping store, doctor’s house, kindergarden etc. The houses were in ruins. People were forced to leave quickly as a part of evacuation drive. The authorities had destroyed these houses to ensure that the villagers do not return. The area of villages was within the 30 km radius of the accident and it was a risk. Villagers were sent to cities but many villagers did not adjust to the city life and wanted to come back – but then government withdrew their pension and other benefits. So people were forced to go back to cities. Nobody liked it. The villagers did not like it. Nor did the hosts in cities. Apart from hotels and camps, authorities forced city dwellers to accommodate the refugees. After the destruction of the village by authorities, nomads, thieves and others came here to steal the remnants of the house. As people had left in a hurry, lot of goods were there in the house. TV, Fridge, expensive things etc. People stole the metals, wires etc. Whatever they could get. And whatever little was left, was destroyed by nature over the years. Wear and tear due to nature was the final act. I was pained to see images of kindergarden. The dolls, the story books, the cots for kids etc. Very Emotional. We visited more abandoned sites – all of which had similar and equally tragic stories.

    The next stop was the Chernobyl Nuclear Power Plant. The Chernobyl Nuclear Power Plant was one of the most important power plants in USSR. The aim was to make it the largest nuclear power plant in the world. 

    The city of Chernobyl was chosen after proper research. The density of population was low. The land was not very fertile and hence could be used for industrial use. The nearest big city was Kiev – which was far away from the place. Hence USSR started to develop infrastructure – roads, schools etc. The construction of Chernobyl and Pripyat city began in 1970 and the power planned was opened on 1977. The second reactor was commissioned in 1978, third in 1981 and fourth in 1983. The Chernobyl accident happened on April 26, 1986. But still the power plant continued to work and reactors were active. The three reactors were decommissioned only in 1996, 1991 and 2000 respectively. The reactor two indeed had to be closed earlier due to faults. The reactor No.5 was scheduled for going live on Nov 1986 and No.6 in a short time after that – but the work was suspended and then cancelled due to the accident. The site is very high on radio activity. The isotopes have half-life of at-least 30 years. Hence Reactor No. 4 is enclosed in a concrete and lead sarcophagus. It is further covered by a large steel confinement shelter, to prevent further escape of radioactivity. The large arch-shaped steel case has costed almost 2 billion dollars. 

    The next site was the city of Pripyat. The city of Pripyat was the planned city. It was the showcase to the world. It hosted scientists, delegates, diplomats, politicians and other important people from all over the world. It was designed as a showcase city for the world. The chosen ones came to Pripyat as it promised a better life. The salaries at both Pripyat and Duga was higher. The best food, best hotel, best schools, best healthcare was made available. People came here for a better life. The city of Pripyat had a cultural centre, theatre, football stadium, wonderful roads, shopping centre, amusement park etc. It was planned for walking and bicycles – no vehicles. There was a nice river port. Everything was planned for future growth of the city. But man proposes, God disposes… 

    The accident happened on April 26 but people were not given any information. The life continued and thus it exposed everyone to grave danger. The people injured in the plant were brought to the hospital here and they brought radio active elements. Some people heard of accident and visited near a bridge to see the view of the power plant. They got infected as well. 

    In fact, big celebration was planned for May 1 celebrations and it continued. People had hoarded their houses with food and wine and other things for the celebrations. On May 2, people were told to evacuate the city. They were given 3 hours to take two bags as it was a short-term evacuation. The information was given at 11 am and evacuation happened at 2 pm. They were told that this was temporary evacuation and everyone could be back in 3 days – so people did not take much stuff. They were allowed 2 bags only. Thus people left everything important to them here including electronic items, expensive items etc. A man tried to stuff his favourite cat in the bag but could not do so. But nobody returned. It was sad. The first match in the new stadium was scheduled on May 2, 1986. But it never happened. The new Amusement Park was to open on May 1, 1986 but it also never opened officially. 1300 buses came to evacuate the 49,000 people from town. The buses took lot of time on the road – they were on the roads next to power plant for hours and just inhaling more injurious plumes. People suffer from lot of health issues including cancer due to the exposure to these plumes. All dogs and cats and other animals in the zone were found and killed. 70 Belarusian villages were buried under the ground. 

    Today, the city of Pripyat is a ghost town. Everything is decaying and rusting. Large trees have grown. The residence building, theatre, hospitals etc. all are crumbling. The liquidators have destroyed everything. And rest by scavengers, thieves and nature. The rusting ferris wheel has been a sign of ghost town Pripyat. 

    The next stop was Red Forest. It was very near to the Chernobyl Power Plant and the most infected area. It was the most dangerous area and has the highest level of radioactive elements. At the time of evacuation, buses were standing next to it in queues as the town was cleared. Even we could see that readings on Geigmeter increased from 0.1 to 25-30 even when were in bus and moving at full speed. Dangerous indeed! 

    The last stop was the monument dedicated to liquidators, fire-fighters and other rescuers. It was next to Chernobyl Fire station in the Chernobyl town. It was designed by amateurs and it was never commissioned by anyone. It was an impromptu decision and nobody questioned it. 

    Even today few people live in Chernobyl town. The people who are managing facilities at power plant, overseeing liquidation process etc. Some people are allowed back as 30 years has passed and the 30km radius is considered safe. Even a hotel has opened and people can stay there. Everything requires permission. No schools still as people below 18 years are not allowed. 

    The most surprising thing is that even today Ukraine’s 40% of energy needs are met by nuclear energy. There is no opposition to nuclear power plants. Ukraine exports nuclear energy. 

    Chernobyl continues to be the reminder of what can happen when things go wrong with nuclear energy…..

  • The Road Not Taken – The Visual Expression!

    The Road Not Taken – The Visual Expression!

    The Painting That I Was Waiting For!

    Our lovely library was waiting for the right art as its entry showcase. We had explored many options but never got it right!

    Till we saw this wonderful art expression of Ms Falak of Eklavya. It stole our hearts at the first sight and all the As of Karania family shouted in joy!

    Eklavya has several unique initiatives and Picasso is one such amazing idea. All the children express their painting and other talents which is encouraged and applauded by the entire society. The exhibition is organized to showcase the talent to the world and the proceeds are given to charities.

    The painting is aptly named ‘The Road Not Taken’. Robert Frost’s timeless poem is our favourite anthem and this creative work does the great justice to the poem.

    All the recently auctioned paintings of Mr N Modi on one side and this one on another side!

    Welcome home ‘The Road Not Taken’ and thanks a million Falak!

    Let us revisit the poem here:

    The Road Not Taken
    Robert Frost

    Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
    And sorry I could not travel both
    And be one traveler, long I stood
    And looked down one as far as I could
    To where it bent in the undergrowth;

    Then took the other, as just as fair,
    And having perhaps the better claim,
    Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
    Though as for that the passing there
    Had worn them really about the same,

    And both that morning equally lay
    In leaves no step had trodden black.
    Oh, I kept the first for another day!
    Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
    I doubted if I should ever come back.

    I shall be telling this with a sigh
    Somewhere ages and ages hence:
    Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
    I took the one less traveled by,
    And that has made all the difference.

  • Moodcafe – The Mental Health Startup

    Moodcafe is a mental health based startup by alumni of IIM Ahmedabad and IIT Roorkee that aims to bring a new-age empathetic caring approach to mental health and well being by leveraging best practices and emerging research-driven trends of psychology, counselling, therapies, artificial intelligence and innovative reach out strategies.

    Moodcafe envisions a world where not being Okay is Okay and people connect with each other to heal hearts and mend souls by leveraging empathy, technology and human spirit!

    Moodcafe is a quality one-stop solution ensuring mental wellbeing of all so that anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere.

    Moodcafe has a multi-pronged approach:

    Direct:
    – Awareness through engaging content formats
    – Connecting by leveraging new age tools like social media, chat apps, online help, Bots etc
    – Platform to connect help seekers with experienced and professional experts
    – Mental health and well-being products and services

    Corporate
    – Comprehensive corporate wellness platform
    – Assessment tools
    – Events and training

    Moodcafe aims to serve youth, general consumers and corporates in the near-term future

  • A Long Story Short: Short Films Are Trending Big Time!

    A Long Story Short: Short Films Are Trending Big Time!

    Short Films are trending big time in India and other regions of the world.

    The current rise of short films in India can be contributed to the following factors:

    1. Digital Technologies:
    The proliferation of affordable and reliable internet has created new opportunities for content consumption. The ‘mobile first’ generation is hungry for good content on their personal screens. The cheap internet has opened up the entire nation and regions for consuming short films – one does not need to visit a cinema. And short films are ideally suited for the personal screens and small time window.

    2. Demand for Diverse & Innovative Content:
    Young Generation is more eclectic in their choices. They are looking for new and diverse content. They are more experimental in nature and reward a good story regardless of the star cast. The young and impatient generation has a short attention span and they are look for instant gratification. Short films are “Any Time Movies”.

    3. New Distribution Platforms:
    Online Platforms like YouTube gave a big boost to short films. Today, there are numerous platforms including Netflix, Amazon Prime, Hotstar, Zee5, ErosNow etc. providing a great distribution reach to these movies. Humara Movies, Pocket Films, Terribly Tiny Tales, Alt-Balaji etc are dedicated to the short films.

    Tata Sky has a dedicated Shorts channel which has more than 2000+ movies. Shorts TV is the global leader for short movies and it produces and distributes short movies.

    In addition, there are large number of Film Festivals dedicated to the short movies.

    4. Creative Freedom:
    Film makers love the creative freedom provided by the medium of short movies. There is no big pressure of formula movies and and other commercial considerations to bow to.

    Film makers from across the nation and globe can bring their original stories. They do not need censor certificates for these movies – a big factor.

    Short movies can be a launching platform for new makers. Existing players can use the platform to diversify their portfolio. Lot of big names have taken a leap in the world of short movies – Anurag Kashyap, Sujoy Ghosh, Neeraj Ghaywn, Jackie Shroff, Irrfan, Tapsee Pannu, Manoj Bajpayee, Radhika Apte.

    5. Monetisation:
    Short movies also provide strong monetisation opportunities for unique content. The monetisation opportunities can be: direct brand associations, sale to platforms, film festival reward money and online ad revenue shares. The revenues can be global. The Royal Stag Large Short Films is truly a unique model – which can be exported to the world.

    Apart from the monetisation opportunities, film makers get a lot of Finanical support to get started. In US, film makers also get crowdfunding via Seed & Spark, Kickstarter, Indiegogo and other platforms.

    The rise of short movies is a great development. Does it send warning signals to full feature films? Not really. Both short movies and full feature movies can co-exist. T20 and Test Cricket both co-exist. The short movies are actually inspiring full feature movies. The rise of content-driven cinema is a positive influence of short movies.

    Short Film are the Haiku of the Cinema. Short Films are the Jamun Shots – small but they pack a strong punch. Short Films prove that when it comes to entertainment, size does not matter.

    Short movies are an art form in itself – the movies are completing the circle as the motion picture started in form of short movies only!

    Want a quick taste of short movies?
    Check Anukul…