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  • Past Lives: A Poignant Painting Of Relationships, Identities & Possibilities!

    Past Lives: A Poignant Painting Of Relationships, Identities & Possibilities!

    Past Lives: A Poignant Painting Of Relationships, Identities & Possibilities!

    One of the year’s best and a must watch movie! A slow burn movie that touches your heart! A though provoking movie that spans time and continents!

    Celine Song’s debut movie beautifully captures the lives of two childhood friends over a two decade period where they explore their relationships in the backdrop of life events. Nora & Hae Sung are academic rivals and friends who once go on a parent brokered ‘play date’. The boy is in awe of the girl but she emigrates to Canada.

    Thanks to social media and digital world, they reconnect after twelve years but begin to drift apart again as Nora is committed to her ambition and explores the life she desires. Hae Sung finally meets Nora after another twelve years, as he plans a vacation to New York to meet the established playwright Nora, who is married to writer Arthur. How the meeting unfolds and unravels the nostalgic emotions is what makes Past Lives a brilliant and reflective piece of art!

    The Korean concept of “in-yeon” is central to the movie.

    The movie thrives in the power of saying the unsaid – eye contact, silence, stillness, music, backdrops etc. Watch the powerful ending…..soul moving!

    The movie is a master class in story telling, cinematography, music, acting and direction. Hae Sung (Yoo Teo) wins your heart as a handsome, sweet, dignified, mature and totally romantic protagonist. Nora (Greta Lee) is confused, vulnerable, practical and emotionally torn. Arthur (John Magarro) makes a great impact as Nora’s husband. Celine Song’s direction is truly amazing – full marks to her for a perfect debut.

    Past Lives – A movie about love, loss, marriage, career, culture, diaspora, nostalgia, relationships and destiny! How our relationships affect our lives!

    A must watch movie!

  • Elon Musk – An Eccentric Genius!

    Elon Musk – An Eccentric Genius!

    Elon Musk – One of the world’s biggest disruptors! Tesla, SpaceX, Starlink, Neuralink, The Boring Company, xAI, X (Twitter), PayPal and OpenAI – The list of disruptive enterprises does not get bigger or impressive than this!

    How did a boy, who was bullied and had a difficult childhood, turn into one of the richest and most influential man on earth? What did it take to build his business empire? And who is he as a person?

    Sir Walter Isaacson tries in answering the above questions. Walter is one of the best biographers, who has documented the lives of Einstein, Benjamin Franklin, Leonardo da Vinci, Jennifer Doudna and Steve Jobs. Hence the expectations of his work on Elon Musk have been naturally very high! The 600 plus page biography gives a detailed description of his life – the early childhood years, personal relationships, professional journey, beliefs, and controversies.

    The book keeps switching between his personal and professional life. A significant spotlight is spent on how Musk spearheaded Tesla and SpaceX – the two game changing enterprises, which are his biggest achievements.

    Automobile industry is a complex industry with strong entrenched players and vested interests. His single-minded pursuit of building cool and mass scale electric vehicles redefined the industry. Navigating tough competition and operational challenges, he built Tesla as one of the most valuable companies in the world. During crisis of production at Tesla, he slept at the factory for weeks! Tesla’s success is indeed stuff of legends.

    And no less commendable feat is SpaceX – rocket science is not everyone’s cup of tea, and he challenged the leading American aerospace giants. Focussing on reusable rockets and thinking out of box helped him succeed! He broke the “cost plus” model at NASA. Picture this: “When in 2014,” Isaacson writes, “Nasa awarded SpaceX the contract to build a rocket that would take astronauts to the space station, it had on the same day given a competing contract, with 40% more funding, to Boeing. By the time SpaceX succeeded in 2020, Boeing had not even been able to get an unmanned test flight to dock with the station.”

    Musk wants to colonise Mars and is totally paranoid about it – he wants to make humans a multi-planetary species in his lifetime! He has built other equally significant business – the OpenAI, StarLink, NeuraLink, The Boring Company and XAI. He was one of the early investors at Paypal.

    Elon Musk has a clear toolkit for business success. He challenges the existing practices in each of the industries he operates in. He believes in engineering and design teams should work together – so they work next to each other. He is totally involved in the engineering and manufacturing activities and likes to be in control. He tries to build everything himself – vertical integration. He drives down the costs with a terrorist fervour. The idiot index is his favourite idea – which calculated how much more costly a finished product was than the cost of its basic materials. If a product had a high idiot index, its cost could be reduced significantly by devising more efficient manufacturing techniques. 

    He takes big bets, huge risks and makes quick decisions. He is often quoted – the only laws are the laws of physics – everything else is a recommendation. All these traits have helped him become the richest man on the earth and Time’s ‘Person Of The Year’.

    But Elon Musk is also a ruthless leader who does not care about people. He does not believe in work-life balance. He thrives in a constant crisis mode. He has no empathy. Walter suggests that his painful childhood could be partly a reason for it. As a kid in South Africa, Elon Musk was regularly beaten by bullies and was even in hospital. His father offered bigger emotional pains with his destructive behaviour.

    “I’m just a fool for love,” Musk tells Isaacson. “I am often a fool, but especially for love.” Elon Musk’s relationships have an interesting arc as well. His relationships include actors Talulah Riley and Amber Heard, musician Grimes and Justin. He also his father to the twins of his top executive and venture capitalist Shivon Zilis – conceived by in-vitro fertilization.

    He also believes that the declining fertility late is a cause of great concern. People should reproduce more – he has 10 children from multiple partners.  When Shivon was pregnant with twins, and was experiencing complications, in a nearby room, a woman serving as a surrogate for Musk and Grimes, was suffering from pregnancy complications too. All three women were nearby as they helped Musk’s vision of reproducing more.

    One of his most controversial and interesting acquisition is Twitter, which he has rebranded as X.  As I read his tweets regularly, this is where he could slip. This could be his Waterloo. Walterson says that owning the global playground is his revenge at being bulled at the school playground. But Twitter is not a tech company, it is a people business – one area which is not Musk’s strong suit.

    Musk indeed comes across an imperfect individual with high degrees of toxicity, disregard, and ego. Walter tires to justify it. “Sometimes great innovators are risk-seeking man-children who resist potty training,” Isaacson concludes in the last lines of his life of Musk. “They can be reckless, cringeworthy, sometimes even toxic. They can also be crazy. Crazy enough to think they can change the world.”

    Like what Elon Musk said on a live TV Show: “To anyone I’ve offended, I just want to say I reinvented electric cars and I’m sending people to Mars in a rocket ship. Did you think I was also going to be a chill, normal dude?”

    Are we OK with this?

    Another Steve Jobs? Steve Jobs and Elon Musk are very similar in their maddening and relentless pursuit for excellence and success. Both changed the face of industries they operated in. Both had serious issues in people management and showed lack of empathy. One difference was – Steve was more design driven and big thinker. Elon Musk is more engineering driven and loves to get into micromanagement. And yes, Steve never tweeted recklessly!

    Unfortunately, while the book is a great source of information of Elon Musk’s life and offers multiple examples of how we broke citadels of traditional industries and created success with Tesla and SpaceX, it offers less insights. The book is paean to Musk the Emperor – our real-life Tony Stark in Iron Man, where he had a cameo!

    Sir Walter Issacon’s Elon Musk Biography is a mixed dossier of Musk’s personal and professional lives – rich in information, poor in insights! Not his best work!

    Elon Musk – Love him. Hate him. Cannot ignore him. Drives passionate opinions. Worshipped. Crucified.

    Elon Musk – An eccentric genius! A flawed innovator! Saving humanity while not being human? The jury is still out on Elon Musk!

  • Jawan Review: Citizen Khan’s Massy Bollywood Masala Entertainer For The Political Bharat!

    Jawan Review: Citizen Khan’s Massy Bollywood Masala Entertainer For The Political Bharat!

    Jawan Review: Citizen Khan’s Massy Bollywood Masala Entertainer For The Political Bharat!

    Whistles, song, dance, crazy fans, popcorn stockout, SRK fans going crazy – The SRK masala blockbuster rides the Great Indian Theatre takeover! I saw the movie in a big non-multiplex screen on the first day and public is hysterical at every SRK act – entry, dance, dialogues, action! The southern spice and Bollywood superstar create magic! 

    ‘Bete ko hath lagane se pehle, baap se baat kar’ gets the maximum applause. Aryan – ticked! 

    The fight against the corrupt system – spearheaded by an army officer and his jailer son. Farmer suicides, dilapidated medical system, faulty arms deals, environment harming factories politician-businessmen nexus, international collaboration – all the ingredients for our hero to fight the system and stand up for common man. 

    After a spectacular opening act, SRK sets the pace with fiery Robinhood acts with the Chak De type womaniya squad. Nayanthara and Deepika are effective and glamourous. Vijay Sethupathi is underutilised – a stronger villain was definitely needed! The little girl is too cute and Sanjay Dutt is forced. 

    The Hollywood matching action and thrills are highly engaging. The pace dips in the second half and music is forgettable – unusual for a SRK movie. A stronger edit and sharper dialogue writing would have lifted the movie even further. Though the final climax with its big sermon and action ensures a strong ending. 

    Watch the total paisa vasool Bollywood masala potboiler! SRK is having fun as an action hero after his romantic hero days. Pathaan scores over Jawan but let the audience decide! 

  • Happy Teacher’s Day 2023

    Happy Teacher’s Day 2023

    Happy Teacher’s Day

    Guru Brahma Guru Vishnu Guru Devo Maheshwara
    Guru Sakshath Parambrahma Tasmai Shri Gurave Namaha 

    A teacher influences lives, creates tomorrow and inspires humanity! Teacher guides to develop hand (skills), head (knowledge) and heart (wisdom) with love, grace and humility!

    Remembering the wisdom, love, guidance, warmth and values that I have received. I am because of these divine souls who have blessed the paths of many. I remember the debts that I owe to my parents, my friends, my colleagues and my seniors for being the guiding light in this journey. My best lessons came from my critics and adversities!

    My mentors have never preached or given lessons – they have inspired me by their actions, ideas and presence.

    #TeachersDay

  • When Impregnable Outliers & Strongest Stars Get Disillusioned!

    When Impregnable Outliers & Strongest Stars Get Disillusioned!

    One of the most pivotal points of ‘The Scam 2003’ is the turnaround of an upright, ethical and faultless government officer Madhusudhan Mishra. The vrituous and disciplined soldier has been toiling for years but has been ignored and often overlooked for promotions. He turns away the conniving scamster protagonist Abul Karim Telgi and his bribes. In fact, he invites Telgi to his office and publicly humiliates him in front of the entire staff for attempting to corrupt the system. He is impregnable. 

    Telgi is smart and ensures a promotion for the officer by greasing palms at the central government. The officer finally gets the promotion but he is devastated and unhappy. He questions that the system never saw decades of his work and loyalty. His entire career’s work was neglected but a scamster’s one act got him the promotion! His unhappiness and sense of bertrayal is real. On that fertile ground, Telgi ploughs his charisma and soft spoken charm to sow the seeds of his empire. By winning over Madhusudhan Mishra, he won a lottery and builds his network. 

    What are the lessons?

    Majority of the corporates and government offices work because of the diligent and righteous professionals. Failing to create a system that acknolwedges, respects and encourages these individuals is a recipe for sub optimal success. The top management and HR function believe that the people stay for the paychecks but the outliers are driven by their own professional values and moral compass. Extraordinary leaders like Rockerfeller, Carnegie, Bill Gates, Tim Cook, Tata, Narayan Murthy & Abdul Kalam shine as examples for pushing the envelope for a true meritoracy with human touch! 

    What can one do as an indvidual? Be an ambassador for rewarding excellence and challenging the system for true causes. Communicate often and openly with team and acknowledge their contributions. The biggest paradox of love and respect is that it is earned, not begged for. One loses it the moment one asks for it. The corporate and personal world is full of skeletons of relationships that could have endured and thrived with a little more attention, communication and gratitude. 

    And yes, Madhusudhan Mishra is based on the true character. Personally, I think Madhusudhan Mishra should have resigned and continued his journey….

    #scam2003 #sonlyliv #scam2003sonyliv #thetelgistory #crime #thriller #weekendwatch

    #ott #corporatelessons 

  • Scam 2003: The Telgi Chutzpah Shines In An Average Fare!

    Scam 2003: The Telgi Chutzpah Shines In An Average Fare!

    Daring toh karna padega darling!

    First Things First! Scam 2003 Is Not As Gripping As The Pratik Gandhi – Harshad Mehta Show: The Scam 1992. The Comparison May Not Be Completely Fair. 

    Scam 2003 Follows The Same Template: The Rags To Riches Story, Charismatic Protagonist, Mindless Ambition, Exploitation Of The Greed Of Corrupt Loopholes In The System. 

    Abdul Karim Telgi Is A Humble & Smart Fruit Seller From Karnataka. After A Short Stint In Gulf, The City Of Dreams Beckons Him And He Rises & Rises As The King Of Counterfeit Stamp Papers! During His Journey, He Either Wins Or Buys The People & System Around Him! 

    Scam 2003 Belongs To Gagan Dev Riar – His Charm Is Attractive – As Is His Metamorphosis Into A Menace. He Has Gotten Into The Skin As Well As The Mannerisms Of Telgi Impeccably. Even In Simple One Liners Or Complex Episodes, He Keeps You Hooked! 

    Savings account mein confidence jama karke rakha hoon, cash bhi aa jaayega!

    The Show Is Pale In Comparison To The Scam 1992. The Pace Is Slow, Screenplay Weak & The Drama Does Not Seem As Gripping As The Earlier Show. However, Only The First Five Episodes Of The Telgi Story Are Out. So Things May Change In The Second Serving!

    #scam2003 #sonlyliv #scam2003sonyliv #thetelgistory #crime #thriller #weekendwatch

    #ott

  • National Film Awards 2023

    National Film Awards 2023

    National Film Awards 2023

    Best Feature Film: Rocketry
    Best Director: Nikhil Mahajan, Godavari
    Best Popular Film Providing Wholesome Entertainment: RRR

    Best Actor: Allu Arjun, Pushpa
    Best Actress: Alia Bhatt, Gangubai Kathiawadi and Kriti Sanon, Mimi

    Best Supporting Actor: Pankaj Tripathi, Mimi
    Best Supporting Actress: Pallavi Joshi, The Kashmir Files

    Best Music Director (Songs): Devi Sri Prasad, Pushpa
    Best Music Direction (Background Music): MM Keeravaani, RRR
    Best Male Playback Singer: Kaala Bhairava, RRR
    Best Female Playback Singer: Shreya Ghoshal, Iravin Nizhal
    Best Lyrics: Chandrabose, Konda Polam’s Dham Dham Dham

  • Made In Heaven 2: Glam, Glitz & Grey – A Must Watch Iconoclastic Show !

    Made In Heaven 2: Glam, Glitz & Grey – A Must Watch Iconoclastic Show !

    Made In Heaven 2: Glam, Glitz & Grey – A Must Watch Iconoclastic Show !

    Talk of the town! Solid writing, powerful performances, iconoclast acts, pastel weddings, designer clothes, beautiful brides, charming grooms, top notch production values – Made In Heaven Season 2 is a wonderful watch!

    The template is simple: Each episode has a one or two weddings with an inherent issue or tension, ultra stylish weddings with magnificent clothes and uber themes and the ongoing life stories of ‘Made In Heaven’ wedding planning agency team members. Same sex coupling, Dalit wedding, Muslim wedding, Bollywood deal wedding, self wedding – all scenarios are covered to give the series a strong progressive and liberal credential! The beauty lies that these are not checklist issues, but many of them are handled with great nuance and sensitivity. 

    Shobhita continues her purple patch – taking her glam stylish svelte avatar of Kaveri (The Night Manager) to next level with more teeth, grit, vindictiveness and vulnerability. Impeccable is the word for Shobita! She is having a ball – “Money softens the blow! For the rest..there’s whisky” 

    Mona Singh’s Bulbul Johari is a stupendous act – the powerhouse performer unfolds her emotional journey as the series progresses. Whether asking the violence victim bride to stand up for herself or navigating the ‘locker room’ scandal of her teenage son, she is super impressive. She is a class apart! “Hearts of girls are won by respect and love, not force”. 

    Arjun Mathur is outstanding – he is messy, he is confused, he is fragile, he is choking, he is bottled up, he is struggling, he is guilty, he is victimised – touching portrayal of full range of emotions. His difficult relationship with mother, its impact on his psyche, his inability to open up to his partner, his mother’s death – highly moving! “Some of us are meant to travel alone!”

    The biggest discovery and showstopper of the series is Trinetra Haldar – a doctor turned actor. The transwoman actor is exceptional – totally calm and poised as she steals the show playing herself! Full marks to the writers for giving a strong transgender character – a highest paid employee, totally accepted by parents. Trinetra’s Mehek deals with the shit with resilience, anchors her relationships with amazing maturity and loves having fun – “I want to go on a date, not give a TED talk!” I am sure we will see more of her in the days to come! 

    The show has a very impressive supporting cast – Kalki, Jim Sarbh, Vijay Raaz, Shashank Arora, Shivani Raghuvanshi. Vijay Raaz is a terrific as a feminist, not just a money bags. Watch him when he says – Dhindora pitiye!

    The cameos are equally top notch – Fiery and nuclear Powered Radhika Apte, beautiful Mrunal Thakur, diva Dia Mirza, effervescent Sanjay Kapoor, classy Neelam Kothari, composed Samir Soni, charming Vikrant Massey, Neil, Imaad Shah and others! 

    Writers Zoya Akhtar, Reema Kagti and Alankrita Shrivastava have done a fabulous job by creating rich characters with strong arcs and given each character a distinct identity. Directors Reema Kagti and Zoya Akhtar have roped in Nitya Mehra, Alankrita Shrivastava, and Neeraj Ghaywan as directors 

    Love it or hate it – but worth a watch! 

    #madeinheaven #madeinheaven2 #amazonprime #primevideo #wedding #greatindianwedding #romance #drama #bollywood #bingewatch #hindiseries #bingeworthy #weekendwatch

  • Faadu – A Love Story Review: A Slow But Refreshing Love Story

    Faadu – A Love Story Review: A Slow But Refreshing Love Story

    Faadu is a clutter breaking slow burn love story powered by exceptional performances of Saiyami Kher and Pavail Gulati. 

    When Ghalib Meets Gucci

    When Bhutan Meets America

    When Faiz Meets Ferrari

    Faadu starts as a refreshing tale of opposites attract. Manjiri and Abhay comes from a completely different background. Ujjain descendant Abhay, his auto rickshaw driver father, ailing mother and alcoholic brother live in a Mumbai Ghetto where life is an endless struggle and everything claustrophobic. Manjiri hails from an idyllic village in Konkan Coast where her highly supportive poetry loving father has given her complete support and encouragement to fly in the open skies.  Both meet, appreciate each other’s candour, fall in love and marry. So far so good. 

    However, ambitious Abhay is on a single minded mission to break the shackles of poverty and ensure a meteoric rise in the city of dreams. He makes questionable choices resulting into a troubled relationship with family and Manjiri. The journey of impatient Abhay overtakes the romance as he navigates different chapters of his hyper quick but grey growth. 

    Faadu is indeed a slow burn where Saiyami Kher shines. She is the moral compass and acts an anchor with brilliant clarity. She is the fountainhead of poetry, patience and simplicity. Pavail is equally strong and shows a great transformation. Great supporting cast as well. 

    Faadu slips in the second half and could have done with better editing. Though, its slow pace could appeal to a few sections. Excellent music and awesome cinematography. 

    Faadu: A love story that is worth a watch 

    #faadu #sonyliv #lovestory #bollywood #webseries #hindiseries #romance #bliss

  • Apexon’s Got Talent: Exemplary Show Of Apexers With A Heartwarming Performance By Ignite Ahaan Kids

    Apexon’s Got Talent: Exemplary Show Of Apexers With A Heartwarming Performance By Ignite Ahaan Kids

    Apexon’s Got Talent: Exemplary Show Of Apexers With A Heartwarming Performance By Ignite Ahaan Kids

    Apexon’s Got Talent is the showcase event of exemplary talent of Apexers in all fields. Its Grand Finale coincided with the opening of our brand new office at Ahmedabad’s prime location. The sheer brilliance of the Apexers and their powerhouse performances made judging the winners a very difficult job! Congrats to the winners!

    Apexon’s Got Talent also featured the special performance from Ahaan Kids at the grand finale. Watch these kids rule the stage and win hearts!

    One of the most beautiful aspects of our culture is the close integration of Ignite and Ahaan in our Apexon fabric.

    Our Apexon family does not include 5500 hearts in our office, but also more than 2000 hearts whose lives we touch through our Ignite initiatives. Our Apexon events and celebrations become bigger with the warm presence of our Ignite kids and youth – at ICL finals, festival celebrations or cultural events.